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A Thank You Letter to My Beige Kitchen

2/8/2025

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Dear Beige Kitchen,

As I stand here looking at you one last time in your current form, I can’t help but feel gratitude. You've been the quiet, beige heart of my home for about 15 years, and before I begin your long-awaited refresh, I want to take a moment to thank you for everything you've given me and my family.
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Above: Behold! The beige countertops and cabinets! Also, it looks like soup is fixing to happen.
When we first moved in, I admit I didn’t find your beige walls, beige cabinets, and beige everything else particularly inspiring. Your monochrome color scheme felt dull, devoid of personality. But your true beauty wasn’t in your color palette; it was in the life that would happen within your four walls.

Over the years, we cooked thousands of meals together. So many rushed breakfasts, lunches packed in lunchboxes, and the occasional elaborate holiday dinner; beige kitchen, you witnessed every culinary experiment. You’ve seen me at my best (Julia Child’s Beef Bourguignon) and at my worst (that terrible chili that burnt the bottom of the pot and made the whole house stink).  Through it all, you were reliable and ready for more.

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The Place Where My Children Grew

​Oh, the stories you could tell about my children. You’ve been more than just a place to cook; you’ve been a classroom, a workshop, and a creative haven.
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​Above: Savory! My beloved son makes breakfast and corresponding breakfast mess.
Right: Sweet! My precious daughter perfects her birthday cake decorating amidst an explosion of powdered sugar and beige decor.
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You were where they learned to make their first scrambled eggs and left burnt, stinky egg splatters on the stovetop. You endured their early, clumsy attempts to empty the dishwasher—cups placed on the wrong shelves, silverware stacked haphazardly in drawers. You’ve seen birthday cakes decorated with far too much frosting, the countertops covered in sprinkles and food coloring. You’ve hosted science projects, clay crafts, and endless batches of Shrinky Dinks baked in the oven. Your surfaces were where creativity blossomed! Thank you beige kitchen.

A Kitchen’s Wear and Tear

It’s not lost on me how much we’ve asked of you over the years. Your cabinets have absorbed so many spills and sticky fingerprints. The countertops have taken on scars from overzealous chopping and crafting mishaps. And your appliances, especially that old stove, have worked tirelessly through years of constant use.
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Above: One morning, when the kids were teenagers, I woke up to find my kitchen in this state. I went directly back to bed.
You’ve earned your share of wear and tear, and though your beige has become somehow even more beige with time, those imperfections tell a story—our story. They’re reminders of the life we’ve lived here and the love we’ve poured into this home.

The Refresh: A New Chapter

Now, dear kitchen, it’s time for a new chapter. Your beige walls will soon be painted in vibrant new colors. Your cabinets will be given a fresh look, and your tired appliances will be replaced with shiny, modern upgrades. The sink—oh, that perpetually dripping sink—will finally retire in favor of something both functional and beautiful.

It’s not that I’m erasing you. Far from it. I’m honoring you by giving you the attention you deserve. For too long, you’ve been taken for granted, your utilitarian design overshadowed by the busyness of life. But now, with this refresh, I’m bringing you back to life. You’ll still be the heart of our home, but with a renewed sense of style and purpose.

Gratitude for the Journey

Thank you, beige kitchen, for being more than just a room. You’ve been a witness to our lives, a space where growth, learning, and love have flourished. You’ve seen us through laughter and tears, chaos and calm. And now, as we embark on this renovation journey, I carry those memories with me, grateful for everything you’ve given us.

Here’s to the next 15 years of meals, memories, and milestones. You’ll always hold a special place in my heart.
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Choosing the Best Paint Finishes for Every Room

1/22/2025

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When it comes to painting your home, we all start with color, don't we? It’s like picking a star for your movie—the big, showy centerpiece. But what about the director behind the scenes? That’s your paint finish. It sets the mood, shapes the experience, and makes sure the star doesn’t overshadow the story. And let me tell you, after orchestrating countless DIY home improvements, I’ve learned that the right paint finish can be a game-changer. Let’s talk about which finishes work best for different rooms in your house. 

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All About Paint Finishes
First, here is a quick crash course on paint finishes: Think of them as the personality types of the paint world. Here’s the lineup:​
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1. Flat/Matte: Imagine a quiet introvert who prefers to stay in the background, covering up any flaws like a true team player. Not the best for taking a hit, though.
2. Eggshell: Just a whisper of a sheen. It’s the classy, understated friend who’s good at blending in but always dependable.
3. Satin: Smooth, soft, velvety, and performs well in a variety of situations.
4. Semi-Gloss: This one is an extrovert. It loves to shine, handles tough situations with ease, and doesn’t mind a good scrubbing.
​5. High-Gloss: All shine, all the time. Durable and dramatic but not afraid to show its imperfections. Got it? Great. Now let’s match these personalities to your spaces.

Living Room/ Dining Room
Recommended Finish: Eggshell or Satin
The living and dining rooms are your home’s social butterflies. They’re where you host movie marathons, birthday dinners, and maybe even the occasional nap session (one can always hope). You need a finish that can keep up.
  • Why Eggshell? Eggshell gives your walls a soft glow, like the golden hour of finishes. It’s warm, inviting, and perfect for showing off your carefully curated gallery wall. Plus, it’s tough enough to shrug off the odd scuff from moving furniture around (again).
  • Why Satin? Satin is a fantastic choice for when you need a little more resilience. Do you have children or pets running around? If you do, satin is your friend. It cleans up easily and can handle everything from sticky fingerprints to wine spills.


Kitchen
Recommended Finish: Satin or Semi-Gloss
The kitchen: a battleground of grease splatters, clouds of steam from the coffee maker, and--if you're like me--the occasional experimental recipe gone wrong. This room needs armor.
  • Why Satin? Satin finishes are dependable and hard-working for your kitchen. They’re durable, easy to clean, and won’t blind you with too much shine.
  • Why Semi-Gloss? Semi-gloss is for the surfaces that receive the most use—your cabinets, trim, and backsplash. It stands up to daily wear and tear, and with a quick wipe, it’s ready for its close-up.


Bathroom
Recommended Finish: Semi-Gloss or High-Gloss
Bathrooms deal with more moisture than any other room in the house. Your paint finish needs to stand up to it all without breaking a sweat.
  • Why Semi-Gloss? Semi-gloss is reliable for bathroom wall coverage; It handles humidity, resists mildew, and stays looking fresh no matter how many steamy showers you take.
  • Why High-Gloss? High-gloss is a perfect choice for trim, cabinetry, and any accents you want to pop. Plus, its water-resistant nature makes cleanup a breeze.


Bedrooms
Recommended Finish: Flat, Matte, or Eggshell
Your bedroom is your sanctuary. It’s where you unwind with a good book (or hide from the world and binge-watch your latest obsession). Here, you can choose a paint finish that sets a tranquil tone to help you relax.
  • Why Flat or Matte? Flat finishes create a serene, cocoon-like atmosphere. They’re excellent for hiding imperfections and make your walls feel as cozy as your favorite blanket.
  • Why Eggshell? If your bedroom doubles as a workspace or you just need a touch more durability, eggshell is a perfect choice. It’s inviting and practical at the same time.


Kid’s Room and Playroom
Recommended Finish: Satin or Semi-Gloss
Ha ha! The chaos zones. If you have young children, the walls may see their share of crayon art or sticky handprints; as children get older, the types of messes may change, but the need for a durable and easy-to-clean paint finish remains constant.
  • Why Satin? Satin is your low-maintenance hero here. It handles messes without losing its charm.
  • Why Semi-Gloss? For maximum durability, go with semi-gloss. It’s (almost) impervious to messes. Just don't tell that to the kids because they may take it as a challenge.


Hallways and Staircases
Recommended Finish: Satin or Eggshell
These are your home’s highways, constantly in use and prone to scuffs and dings.
  • Why Satin? Satin’s durability makes it a smart choice for these high-traffic areas. Plus, it’s easy to clean up when life gets messy.
  • Why Eggshell? Eggshell works if you prefer a softer look but still need a bit of resilience.


Home Office
Recommended Finish: Flat, Matte, or Eggshell
The home office should inspire focus and creativity. The right finish can set the tone.
  • Why Flat or Matte? These finishes reduce glare and create a distraction-free zone, ideal for video calls or deep work sessions.
  • Why Eggshell? Eggshell adds a bit of warmth and durability—great if your office also serves as a multipurpose room.


Ceilings
Recommended Finish: Flat or Matte
Ceilings are like the unsung heroes of a room—you don’t notice them until they’re not right. Keep it simple.
  • Why Flat or Matte? These finishes hide imperfections and create a clean, seamless look. No fuss, no shine.


Trim and Doors
Recommended Finish: Semi-Gloss or High-Gloss
Trim and doors are the accents that tie a room together. They need a finish that stands out and stands up to wear.
  • Why Semi-Gloss? Semi-gloss offers a bit of shine and a lot of toughness. It highlights details without being overpowering.
  • Why High-Gloss? If you want drama, high-gloss is the way to go. It’s bold, polished, and practically indestructible.


Laundry Room
Recommended Finish: Satin or Semi-Gloss
Laundry rooms might not be glamorous, but they deserve attention, too.
  • Why Satin? Satin handles moisture and mess with ease, keeping your walls looking fresh.
  • Why Semi-Gloss? For trim, cabinets, and areas near the washer, semi-gloss is a moisture-resistant lifesaver.


A Conclusion and a Caveat
Choosing the right paint finish is like picking the right accessory—it can elevate your entire look (or room). Whether you’re battling grease in the kitchen or creating a cozy bedroom oasis, the right finish makes all the difference. Over the years, I’ve painted, repainted, and learned that a little attention to detail can transform a space—all without emptying your wallet.

But before I go, here’s one more thing: rules are made to be broken. I think these recommendations are a great starting point, but your home is your canvas. If you want to try a bold high-gloss in the living room or a soft eggshell in the bathroom, go for it! Experiment, have fun, and let your personality shine through. After all, the best spaces are the ones that reflect you. Happy painting!
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    Hi, I’m Sally—a lifelong learner, creative, former teacher, and proud mom of two grown kids who inspire me daily. Currently, I work from home, and I’ve become passionate about helping others transform their homes into spaces that are not just functional, but beautiful and empowering. Let's talk about the value of resourcefulness, mindful living, and creating connections that enrich both our homes and communities.

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